Moves that are guaranteed to get you noticed
"Men tend to hold forth on topics they know a lot about," says Ann Demarais, Ph.D., coauthor of First Impressions: What You Don't Know about How Others See You. Women call this male-pattern lecturing, and it bores the hell out of them. Resist the urge. Instead, intrigue her with a line like "Next time I'll have to show you pictures from my trip to Peru."