Q. Glen, Sometimes when I’m in the middle of that oral thing, I feel like it’s never going to end. Is there any rule of thumb as to how long a session should last?
A. Dear Jack: Yes, there’s a very precise answer as to how long a cunnilingus session should last -- as long as it takes to bring her to orgasm.
That said, every woman is different when it comes to her individual process of sexual response, so it’s difficult to accurately estimate how long a given session should last. Some women are able to quickly develop the sexual tension necessary to reach orgasm, while others require stimulation over a longer period of time.
And remember, a woman’s orgasmic potential may fluctuate due to a wide variety of factors such as stress, exercise, diet, fatigue, medication, and alcohol (can help her to relax, but also slow her down if too much is imbibed). Broader physical factors such as age and pregnancy can also influence a woman’s orgasmic potential.
Masturbation helps to “wire” a woman for orgasm. And, of course, the degree to which a woman has been amply stimulated during foreplay also has a direct bearing on the length of a cunnilingus session.
The more confident you are navigating her process of sexual response -- the more you learn what works and what doesn’t -- the more efficient your experience will be.
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Glen Edward Mitchell
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